This was sent to me in an email by my very thoughtful and lovely wife, Jill. I love you honey!!!
Words of Wisdom to Live By… I’m sitting here tonight on the deck in my backyard, watching my kids play on the new trampoline (that took me almost all day to put together). It’s not that I’m bad at putting things together. In fact, I’m pretty good at MacGuyver-ing just about anything. And, this wasn’t a difficult task except for the fact that they don’t tell you you’re going to need a second person to “enjoy this experience with” until you’re already into the construction of the bouncing fun station. The sky is a perfect shade of blue, the temperature is just right, children are laughing (Yes, I did get it all setup complete with bling-bling blinking LED “Flash Zone” for a jumping target and “loads of extra fun”). I’m finally relaxing and taking a moment to reflect on the day and I’m still moved by a wonderful message my wife sent me today. As every entrepreneur knows, it’s challenging starting a new business, right down to the core – Is my idea a good one? This is probably the most profound and deep question all entrepreneurs have. Not “Will I make a ton of money off this?”, although that thought does cross every entrepreneuer’s mind. Not “How will I do this?” – where there’s a will there’s a way. Not, “Why am I doing this?” – the answer to this is often deep in the heart of the entrepreneur and returns us to the main question, the source. “Is my idea a good one?” It’s personal. It’s your baby. It comes down to the essentials of human nature… It’s name is Ego and it gets hurt and scared easily. Recently, I haven’t been hurt, but I’ve been admittedly a bit scared about starting my own business based on a wing and a prayer. But, these words of wisdom brought me back to basics and forced me to look at things from a different perspective, giving me courage and wisdom on how I am going to proceed next. I hope they help do the same for you in whatever your endeavors are, entrepreneurial or not. Thanks to my very thoughtful and lovely wife Jill for sending this at just the right time.
Written By Regina Brett, 90 years old, of The Plain Dealer, Cleveland , Ohio “To celebrate growing older, I once wrote the 45 lessons life taught me. It is the most-requested column I’ve ever written. My odometer rolled over to 90 in August, so here is the column once more:
1. Life isn’t fair, but it’s still good.
2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.
3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.
4. Your job won’t take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and parents will. Stay in touch.
5. Pay off your credit cards every month.
6. You don’t have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.
7. Cry with someone. It’s more healing than crying alone.
8. It’s OK to get angry with God. He can take it.
9. Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck.
10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.
11. Make peace with your past so it won’t screw up the present.
12. It’s OK to let your children see you cry.
13. Don’t compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn’t be in it.
15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But don’t worry; God never blinks.
16. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.
17. Get rid of anything that isn’t useful, beautiful or joyful.
18. Whatever doesn’t kill you really does make you stronger.
19. It’s never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to you and no one else.
20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don’t take no for an answer.
21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don’t save it for a special occasion. Today is special.
22. Over prepare, then go with the flow.
23. Be eccentric now. Don’t wait for old age to wear purple.
24. No one is in charge of your happiness but you.
25. Frame every so-called disaster with these words ”In five years, will this matter?”.
26. Always choose life.
27. Forgive everyone everything.
28. What other people think of you is none of your business.
29. Time heals almost everything. Give time, time.
30. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
31. Don’t take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
32. Believe in miracles.
33. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn’t do.
34. Don’t audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.
35. Growing old beats the alternative — dying young.
36. Your children get only one childhood.
37. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.
38. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.
39. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else’s, we’d grab ours back.
40. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
41. The best is yet to come.
42. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
43. Yield.
44. Life isn’t tied with a bow, but it’s still a gift.
Written By Regina Brett, 90 years old, of The Plain Dealer, Cleveland , Ohio.
Best wishes and good karma,
Chris
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